當孩子說:我畫得很不像

別人畫得好像，我畫得很像像小朋友的畫畫一樣，其實妳就是孩子呀，是誰說妳一定要畫得像? 要畫得像就用照相機記錄，用繪圖軟體變換水彩或油畫或壓克力或是素描風格! 當孩子說她畫的不像，不喜歡自己畫的，拿自己畫的和他蝦子比較。

這時我們做父母可用以下這些言語鼓勵方式幫助她轉化：

1.「你畫得不像照片，但我看到你創造了一個印象中，想像裡的蓮花世界，這是只有妳的想像力豐富，擁有想像能力的人才想得出來的！」想像力無法教導，妳天生具備這樣的能力，而且很強，妳不僅能想像，還能將你的想像透過筆畫出來! 很不簡單! 如果我問你: 妳怎麼做到的，可不可以教教我，妳就知道，這要怎麼教阿，我就是想到這個畫面阿! 想像力是妳的寶藏! 妳有好多寶藏，繼續去發掘那些寶藏!

2. 「你用了自己的顏色和形狀去畫蓮花，這就是藝術裡最難得的地方：每個人都不同！」

3. 「你有沒有發現，因為你沒照著照片畫，所以你的蓮葉看起來像在跳舞？這種自由，是很多人畫『像』的時候畫不出來的喔。」

"When a child says: 'My drawing doesn't look very good'

Other people's drawings look realistic, while mine look like a child's drawing. But actually—you are a child! Who says you have to draw realistically? For realism, use a camera and apply watercolour, oil painting, acrylic, or sketch filters with digital tools.

When a child says, "It doesn't look like it," or "I don't like what I drew," and starts comparing their work with others...

As parents, we can help them shift perspectives with encouraging words like these:

1. "Your drawing may not look like a photo, but I see a lotus world from your imagination—only someone with rich creativity could come up with that! " Imagination is inherent." You were born with this amazing ability, and it's powerful. You don't just imagine—you can put your imagination onto paper! That's impressive!

If I asked you, "How did you do that? Can you teach me?"—you'd probably say, "I just imagined this picture!" Imagination is your treasure. You have so many treasures—keep discovering them!

2. "You used your colours and shapes to draw the lotus—this is the most precious part of art: everyone is different!"

3. "Did you notice that, because you didn't copy a photo, your lotus leaves look like they're dancing? That kind of freedom is something many people can't capture when trying to make things look 'realistic.'"

BY Jarolin